Attract, don’t chase

Mother Nature provides all we need – she provides the vitamins necessary for the weather changes through seasonal fruit. We can source all we need from the earth, as long as we are in tune with it.

In this way, the universe provides what you need exactly when you need it. As long as you let go of control and resistance.

In April, I was in Sydney. I kept asking the universe to send me someone to show me around and keep me company. I got talking with my roommate at the hostel and we ended up hanging out that day. I received not what I wanted, but what I needed. Now she lives in Townsville and we see each other regularly. She’s become a really important person in my life.

When I see a loved one and my brain lights up with oxytocin, I start thinking I want to hang out with them all the time. The social comedown isn’t fun. I have been more social than usual lately and have found myself wanting to be ‘on’ with others all the time. I observed these thoughts and have consciously changed my perspective – it is for me to enjoy the time I am presented with, for I don’t have it all the time. If I had it all the time, it would lose it’s shine. Instead of trying to chase and hold onto (control) more time with my loved ones, I am allowing the universe to bring us together as it deems necessary.

I am still getting used to being around others and regulating myself/not being a martyr. So the amount of time I spend with them is absolutely perfect for where I am at in my life.

It’s all about acceptance.

I have surrendered completely to the universe and I am enjoying the gifts She brings.

When the student is ready, the teacher appears.

xx

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