At the start of the year, when I had my values/alignment evaluation, I noted

Meet people where they’re at 

In terms of 

Don’t put them on a pedal stool and don’t lower yourself to meet them

I have finally arrived at a place of 

Acknowledge them where they are and keep moving

If they aren’t at a place that serves and aligns with you, that’s okay

For years, I was operating with a nurturing, self sacrificing energy which attracted the manchild archetype in different humans

I entertained it – I love healing and inspiring/awakening the potential in others

This energy was bound up while I was in my relationship, but when I became single they were drawn to me like magnets

I have noticed recently, one of the manchildren I entertained has fallen off his pedal stool

I idolised him for years and years 

But now as I have arrived at a place in my psyche where I value, love and respect myself, I see this persons energy for what it is

Someone who would tell you they are or have been emotionally unavailable but take no steps to mend it

Allowing you to do the emotional labour

I am now in a place of attracting secure, gentle and emotionally aware people into my field